Dear Abby,

I recently read your column advising grandparents on "tough love."
It offered advice to grandparents with respect to misbehaving
grandchildren whose own parents let them run wild. I have followed
your advice, and enclose a picture demonstrating the technique I
employ on my grandson when he just won't behave. His parents do
not allow me to spank him, so I just take him for a ride, and he
usually calms down afterward.

Sincerely,
Tough Love Gramma