By Kassie Meeks
Collegian Reporter
The theme song from Cheers irresistably runs through my
head some days when I return to my house after a long day of classes.
where everybody knows your name, and theyre always
glad you came
.
My house, you see, is a sorority house. And the insistence
of those lyrics from Cheers points to the heart of sorority
life: sisterhood. This amazing sisterhoodas well as its male equivalent
of brotherhoodpoints to an answer for the question of why we have
fraternities and sororities on this campus. What can the Greek system
provide that cannot be gained through independence?
One big answer is networking. In the past couple of months, Ive
noticed more than ever how wonderful the networking aspect of Greek
life is. Then Forbes published an article about the amazing number of
CEOs who have fraternity ties.
This is not surprising in light of data from numerous studies, including
studies done by UCLA and the University of Missouri, about fraternity
and sorority members. These studies consistently show that Greeks are
more likely than independents to complete college and to do more for
and in their communities after graduation. Greeks also are more involved
in volunteer work, clubs, sports and other campus activities during
college. All of this demonstrates Greeks strong sense of community,
which promotes enduring networking ties.
This is one of the biggest answers, in my opinion, to those who decry
fraternities and sororities and ask who needs Greeks on campus anyway.
Those who wonder such things must not realize that the brotherhood and
sisterhood bonds built in Greek houses are tight-knit, lasting far longer
than undergrad and extending far beyond the local college chapter. Someone
who belongs to a certain fraternity or sorority and sees someone else
whom he or she has never met, but who bears the letters or wears the
badge of the same greek affiliation, knows instantly what that person
has sworn to stand for. There is an instantaneous, ineffacable bond.
Such things become immensely important when the fraternity or sorority
member is, for instance, a job applicant, and the one who recognizes
his or her affiliation is in a position to decide who gets the job or
to give a weighty recommendation.
In short, Greek life includes a significant and substantial networking
system that helps its members to succeed in their chosen vocations.
Before any condemn this as unfair, realize that even a superficial study
of history substantiates that networking is integral to human nature.
Where there is no Greek system, recognition and pre-judging are based
on something else.
None of us is really independent. We all know and depend on someone
somewhere. Greek life is just a very efficient way to connect to an
infintessimally greater number of people in far more places. One may
call this a superficial way to do so, but my guess, in turn, would be
that such a critic has never tasted what greek brotherhood or sisterhood
is all about.
Fraternities and sororities are like extended families. Members stick
together and help one another, as any healthy family does. And in an
increasing number of cases, there are some for whom a fraternity or
sorority is the only positive family theyve ever known.
So think twice before arguing to abolish the Greek system from this
or any given campus (or period, if you could). It does an immense amount
of good for an incalculable number of people. And this goodfar
from being shallow or superficialruns deep and wide.
Kassie Meeks is a junior majoring in English.